For better or for worse, I've discovered that I tend to write far more boldly online than I will speak in person. Because of this, it's not uncommon for others to read my words and click away with an image of me as oppositional, unreasonable, and perhaps militant. In many ways, the form of my words has not fit its content.
So, my project: disarm.
One of the most productive avenues I've discovered is cooperative service. Several of my friends have strong roots in fundamentalist evangelical circles. We love each other and have largely reached an understanding. But when we find a space to publicly express our thoughts without reservation (think blogs), our words can breed division.
I spent six hours at a friend's house tonight eating, watching Monty Python, laughing, worshipping, and cooking for a group that serves lunch to homeless members of our community called Renovo. Some of us have had our differences in the past. But when you're standing together with rolling pins and covered in flour, it's infinitely easier to recognize each other's humanity and commitment to the mission of God. Our cooperation broke down any divisions caused by hasty words, leaving instead a beautiful understanding of each others' life, work, mission, and calling.
The moment we stop talking to one another is the moment we've given up on God's dream for us. Sometimes it just takes a little olive oil to get the productive words flowing. [*]
[*] Feel free to substitute a beverage of your choice.
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